,,I didnt have sex but when i got checkd i think i lost my virginity.....?

So a couple of nights ago i stayed out with my boyfriend who is 17 & i am 15 we've known eachother since i was 10 & we've been going out for only 2 months but i was at a party & we decided to go to his house...We did kinda **** but with clothes on until we started taking it off but then he asked me if i really wanted to do it,,& my stupid self said i dont know...So thats when he realized i had been drinking at the party before we got to his place & he buttoned my shorts back up & told me he wouldnt do anything to me when he knew i wasnt normal...We mightve only been together for a little while but i truly think i love him he has enough respect for me not to try to take advantage of me while i was drunk..but then the next morning my mom found out i was at his house & decided to take me to the doctors and get me checkd,,,So we went & when i was being checkd to see if i was a virgin or not the doctor was feeling around my vaginal entrace area & then im not sure but i think the doctor went deeper into me because i was feeling alot of pain when i was getting checked. so is it possible my doctor broke my hem when they were checking me?. & do when do you think me and my boyfriend may be ready to have sex?..