How to really be happy?

I can't tell you how to be happy, only you yourself can answer that. The reason being that everybody is different so therefore everybody has different things that make them happy, different goals in life etc. As for finding "the one" I don't think it is right to base all of your happiness on one person, because if you do so that person could make or break you. For example if you put all of your happiness into one person and that person left you you would be destroyed. I think one of the keys to being happy is to realize that happiness is something that comes from within, its not something somebody else can give you. I'm not saying don't look for the one, just learn to be happy by yourself first. To really be happy you have to do some self examination, when you really do know yourself then you will know what you have to do to be happy.